[Two Pronged] Why can't I find the right man?

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[Two Pronged] Why can't I find the right man?
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'Is the problem me? Every time I meet a guy, it's the wrong one.' TwoPronged

Rappler's Life and Style section runs an advice column by couple Jeremy Baer and clinical psychologist Dr Margarita Holmes.

2014, I started longing for a partner. I met some guys, but not feeling ready, had no relationship or sex with them. I keep on praying that whenever Lord gives me a man, it will be the last. I treated him as my real boyfriend, but it never lasted long. It was emotional torture when we fought. Again, I failed. We called it quits. My hopes are gone. I know I lost. Deep inside me, I still love him. I send him messages hoping he’ll reply.

There are times I feel shaken. I almost gave in, but reminded myself not to fall in the trap. He was honest about what he wants. As long as I resist, he is very persistent. I tried ignoring his messages, but I can’t control myself. Every time I resist, the more I like him. I miss him when we don’t see each other.

Firstly, you believe in a romantic relationship with the man of your dreams and then try to persuade yourself that the man you are currently with actually meets the job requirements when this is not the case. Religion is not within the ambit of this column but from my limited exposure to evangelicals, they seem to have very clear views on sexual behavior . Also, some, but not all churches strongly encourage their brethren to form relationships within the congregation, presumably so that the purity of a member’s faith is not sullied by heresy from without.

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