Is ghosting someone always a bad thing to do? After a cutting out a few of the guys she was messaging without explanation, newly-converted ghoster Poorna Bell isn't so sure...
despite having disappeared from your life with no explanation), ghosting is something I used to heartily disapprove of. Mostly, I still do, but recently, I’ve found myself with one foot in the ghost world.
While I’ve never been ghosted as dramatically as my friend, I have experienced the familiar hallmarks of ghosting: bewilderment, hurt and tucked behind the anger, the inescapable feeling that you weren’t even worth a proper goodbye. Perhaps the solution is to categorise them. So a Type A is the mother of all apparitions, the chief ghost wanker who ends an established friendship or relationship by disappearing without explanation. A Type B could be someone who ghosts on a relatively new connection whereas a Type C is someone you’ve just met online.
From someone who vowed to never ghost, I realised with a jolt that I had accidentally ghosted a guy last year after we hooked up. I didn’t even register that I had done it at the time. I just saw the messages ping from time to time and forgot to reply to them. It wasn’t really anything he’d done – more that he wasn’t the right match, I’d been busy with work at the time and... I hadn't quite got round to telling him.
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